All three of you guys are my good friends. (sorry bout that guys)
All comments are very good advice but here is my game plan- My financial situation is just going to have to play itself out because it is beyond my control. No one is beating my door down, it's not like that. I just keep my head above water for now and deal the best I can.
My mom's (May 17,1934/84yo) Alzheimer's is what it is. I have no control over that and my dad (May 9,1933/85) is still doing pretty good.
I do everything in my power to help them. Cook, clean, laundry,store runs etc. So that part is all that matters to me.
As for the women, here's how I see it. I have bent over backwards for two of them, and all other directions for the third.
The school teacher has been a good friend....until whatever that thing is that makes a woman bat-sh*t, bi-polar nutso for no reason at all.
then we are off for 6 months again.
Ok? Tired of that unstable mindset crap (pot calling kettle black here) but damn there is never a happy medium.
The bartender girl helped me reach my financial defeat, BUT, she put some kind of spell on me with her sorcery because I can't get her outta my skull.
Talk about bat-sh*t nuts. I am a very laid back person but man do I miss the action-packed, wall banging, glass breaking, ass slapping nights we had, then go for a moonlight ride under the stars on a hot July night.
Fact: She has a ridiculous IQ of like 168 and a photographic memory. I wrote like 14 random two digit numbers down on paper and flashed it to her for five seconds. I laughed and said ok smarty, tell me what they were. She said I will one further and list them to you backwards. She did and I was dumbfounded.
The latest chapter is the Asian Invasion. She is the most difficult of the three to read. Now that she gets my warped humor she jokes about our differences more than I do.
I have already rambled enough.
Bottom line. I am focusing on my folks, myself and whatever I can milk these chicks for(midnight calls)...and Jim it sure ain't money although Sherry (school teacher) has sure helped me out many years financially. 100 bucks here, 500 there when I was late on my taxes and so on.
No I am not going to "use" them for cash, I don't play that game. I have to deal with all this other shit anyway, why not go to sleep at night with a smile?
Thank you guys. Seriously, thank you from the pit of my busted heart.
Now where is that circus bear?